In light of several things going on in popular culture these days, I've had many requests for information on false allegations and false reporting when it comes to domestic violence and sexual assault. So I put together a research & resource list so folks can investigate for themselves and understand the issue. Bottom line? False … Continue reading False Reports of violence & assault are not as common as society believes
Domestic Violence
Dr. Sim’s Resource List for the Neurobiology of Trauma:
After my presentation at the Crime Victim's Rights Conference (in a 90 minute session titled "Professionals Playing: Healing & Wholeness in the Midst of Vicarious Trauma"), I was asked for my resource list. A top 10 greatest neurobiology hits, I believe was the exact wording! If I was to create a works cited from all … Continue reading Dr. Sim’s Resource List for the Neurobiology of Trauma:
Polyvagal Theory: Understanding the Physical Body in Trauma
This week I wrote another explanation for my coworkers that might be helpful for others. Ever since I went to the National Sexual Assault Conference this past September, I had my attention tuned into this notion of Polyvagal Theory as it relates to trauma. Here is a tiny, 4-minute little video from Dr. Porges (through … Continue reading Polyvagal Theory: Understanding the Physical Body in Trauma
Bystander Intervention Theory
This research project was made public recently. You can see it on the PDF on this site (and then go to the bottom of the PDF and read more). I analyzed this for my coworkers this week and decided to share it with others. I appreciate this work because it integrates several of the leading … Continue reading Bystander Intervention Theory
The art of Zentangle: A Tool for Healing
Order Prints of Dr. Christy Sim's Empowered Series: She Breathes Fire She Discovers Courage I discovered the art of zentangle as a means to artistically draw our way to healing. It is a fun process and enough friends have asked about it, I collected the best online resources together in one place. I … Continue reading The art of Zentangle: A Tool for Healing
Review with Excerpts: Lundy Bancroft’s New Book
Lundy Bancroft's new book "Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?" (Berkley Books, 2015) is a fantastic new, game-changing, tool for those of us who work with victims of domestic violence. It is also an amazing resource for survivors to access and use individually. The book is divided into several parts. These include: How to … Continue reading Review with Excerpts: Lundy Bancroft’s New Book
Responding to Domestic Violence
My latest article was published on Christian Feminism Today. It took me a month to write, rewrite, and edit. Many friends contributed to the shaping of this final document. Here's a teaser... "How often do religious leaders choose protecting the ones in power over giving voice to the people accusing these leaders of abuse? Way … Continue reading Responding to Domestic Violence
Christian Feminism Today Article, Dr. Christy Sim
In Christian Feminism Today, my article on How to Help a Victim of Violence went live today. "Since graduating with a doctorate focused on domestic violence and healing, the question I am most frequently asked is “How can I help my friend or family member who I know is being hurt?” This is followed by … Continue reading Christian Feminism Today Article, Dr. Christy Sim
Let’s Talk About Items Survivors Might Need
This week I heard someone comment "I don't think anyone living in a domestic violence shelter will be caring about what they have to wear" and I thought: It must be time to bring out my list of ideas! Survivors DO care about personal items in the shelter. I know from experience it is humiliating … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Items Survivors Might Need
#Survivor Care 